Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Aleana's Court Day!

Yesterday we got to take Aleana to court 
and finalize her adoption.
She is now officially our little girl!!
Aleana in her beautiful dress all ready for her big day in court!
 What a cute little girl
The judge was so nice, he let her sit up in his chair and play with his gavel

We are officially a family!! We love our little girl!
Thank you family and friends for all your love and support through this process.






We are so excited that we can now take her to the temple to be sealed to us for time and all eternity!
Saturday is going to be a very special day!!

Here is a little more about her court day!

Curt’s mom and sister Julee showed up first and helped us get Aleana ready for her big day.  

My Parents also met us at the house and spent time with Aleana before heading over to the court house.  We met up with Sara our caseworker and she took us upstairs to wait for Dustin our attorney and to look over papers.  Aleana loved looking out the big window in the hall while we waited for our hearing.  Once we got into the court room she was happy and chatty, she knew something special was going on and she was happy though the whole thing J. While we were waiting for the judge to come in I looked back at my family and noticed that you could see the Logan Temple out the window.  It was a neat reminder of our next goal of taking Aleana to the Temple.

 Judge Willmore came in the room and we all arose to show honor to the judge.  When we were seated the bailiffs had us rise so we could be sworn in.  Then the Judge had Dustin Erickson our Attorney introduced us and our family.  After Judge Willmore talked about why we were there Sara our caseworker gave her testimonial about her work with us and the agency.   She said that Aleana is happy and thriving in our home and it would be in Aleana’s best interest for this adoption to be finalized.  This touched me and made me a little teary eyed, but I guess it made our moms and Julee cry.  Then Dustin questioned Curt, when curt was explaining his relationship with Aleana, it also made me a little choked up.  He said that he loves coming home and seeing Aleana get all excited and happy to see him and that he loves to spend time with her.  Curt agreed that it would be in her best interest to finalize the adoption and signed the paperwork. Then it was my turn, I was a little nervous but was confident that I wanted Aleana.  I told the court that Aleana and I laugh and play together, that she is excited to see me when I come get her up form naps and that she comes to me when she needs comfort and love and that I love her. I told them that I felt it was in the best interest of Aleana to finalize this adoption.  Then I signed the paper work.  Neither Curt or I mess up our names, where we live, who we are married to or our anniversary, Dustin prepared us wellJ
Then the judge talked and told us he has all the paper work for us, the agency, and from the birthparents.  He took all the rights away for her birthparents and gave them to us.  And told us we do not have to worry about this adoption being contested.  Then he signed and stamped the adoption decree.  He said that he loves doing these adoptions almost as much as seeing his grandchildren born because he gets to see these sweet children be placed in homes with good loving parents.  He said that we have had some trying time and have worked hard and sacrificed a lot but no we have a child. He told us to be the best parents we can be because that is what Aleana deserves.  I will do my best to be the mother she deserves.
After the Hearing was over Judge Willmore invited us up to get pictures with him and then he let Aleana sit up in his chair and hold his gavel, which she almost hit herself in the head with J.  The Judge wants us to send a picture of Aleana to him because he likes to keep a record of all the adoptions he does since it is the highlight of his job. It was a neat experience and I am glad we had such an amazing case worker, attorney and judge.  I am so excited that it is final and Aleana is legally my child, but I am even more excited to take her to the temple on Saturday and make her eternally our child.   

After we went and ate Crepes at The Crepery.  My dad told me that he was glad that he came and was there for finalization, but he knew everything would go through once Jesica signed the paper work.  He said he was a little nervous until then but once they were signed she was our child. I love my dad he has always been a great blessing in my life and a great source of strength.

    Then went and chilled at our house and took pictures.  I love my family and I am grateful for all of their love and support through this entire process. I love my little girl and would not have wanted her to come into our life any other way!  We love her Jesica, Jeremy, Brooke and Cindy and are so glad they are part of our life.  The lord really does have a plan for our life and it is better than we could ever imagine!

Month 5 and 6!

When she was 5 months old!  She is the joy of our life!!


Just a Cute Picture :)

St Patrick's Day

Sunday March 17, 2013

Aleana only has the two teeth still; she really has not been to upset except for the past few days so I wonder if they will come soon.  On Tuesday March 12th she learned how to roll from her back to her stomach and is doing it pretty regularly and now she is actually staring to enjoy being on her tummy.  I have not seen her roll from her stomach to her back again; maybe she will pick it up again soon.  Aleana loves her jumper and is getting better at jumping each time she uses it.  She also loves to walk around and explores the area.  I think she likes the independence and it may help her learn to walk.  I am not excited for her to grow up to fast but it is fun seeing her meet new mile stones. 

Aleana is still a babbler and loves to make the bu, bu sound.  It is just so stinking cute. She was babbling through church and most of the afternoon, when she was not crying because of her teeth, being hungry or poppy. Poor little thing had a tough day.  We could have made it easier by checking her diaper sooner; we are not sure how long we made her sit in that poopy diaper.

 Curt and I just love to play with her.  We enjoy talking to her and making her laugh. She is starting to get ticklish!  If you tick her she will often crack up laughing, other times she just sits there.  She likes to play Peek a Boo over some ones shoulder or by having toys or cloths be put in front of her face and then pulled away.  She also loves having people follow her up the stairs or around the house. She just finds the most random and simple things so funny and we just love it!  Although the tricks don’t always work and sometimes only amuse her for a few minutes, but we love to try and ways!

  She fell asleep in my arms today after church and I just held her; I just love snuggling with her.  She also fell asleep in daddy’s arms at church and I know how much he enjoys.  She is just the center of our world and we love her so much.  

Tuesday March 26, 2013

Poor little Aleana has been sick these past few weeks.  I think she is finally better except for a lingering runny nose.  She has had a runny nose, a cough, has not wanted to eat much and was really fussy and tired.  We were up with her for a good part of the night Monday the 18th because she was coughing and choking.  I put her to sleep in her bouncy chair so that she was not flat on her back and it seemed to help her sleep. 

On Tuesday night before we put her to bed we put some blankets under her mattress to raise it up to hopefully help her sleep better. Also Curt gave Aleana her first Fathers Blessing.  It was so special to hold her and be a part her first blessing. I could feel the spirit in Curt’s words as he blessed Aleana to get better and sleep well.  He also to let her know how special she is and how she has already blessed so many people’s lives in her short few months of life. She is such an angel and we are blessed to have her in our life.  Also Aleana and I are blessed to have Curt in our life who is worthy to have the Lord’s Priesthood and bless our lives and home.    I am glad that we had a chance to give Aleana a blessing as just the three of us, it was a special family experience.

Aleana still loves to roll onto her tummy, it is hard to get her to stay on her back unless she is playing with her toes, she loves her toes!  A few times she has even rolled back on to her back.  Before we know it she is going to be rolling all over the place and then crawling all over. We need to think about getting our house baby proof.
Aleana also loves faces! She loves to grab mouths, noses, hair and glasses.  If she is standing up facing me she usually has her hand on my face or a handful of my hair.  My family came up to visit this weekend.  When Allen was holding her she thought is beard was so cool and would run her fingers through it. When Debbie holds her she loves to grab her hair and wrap it around her face and make her have a mustache or eat her hair.  She also likes to eat Debbie’s hair.    When my dad holds her she loves to try and grab his glasses, and when mom held her she loved playing with her mouth.  I love to see her fascinated with the world around her.  She is also crazy about phones, cameras, and my tablet.  I guess that is probably my own fault J.  She love to grab at them and often smiles for the camera.
She has started doing the cutes thing.  She has started to cover her own face and play peek- a- boo with us.  She will cover her face and then we say “where’s Aleana”, and she will uncover her face and give us the biggest smile.  She is so adorable and gets more interactive every day.  
Oh I noticed something today, Aleana has a third tooth and it is not one of her top teeth, it is her bottom right tooth.  We were watching her top teeth and this little one just popped up and surprised us.  No wonder why she was fussy these last few days and wanting the teething tablets as if they were candy.  Now we have to be even more diligent about brushing teeth and giving fluoride.    

Easter!

6 months!!

She weighed 17 lbs abs 11.5 oz
She was beginning to roll all over the place and is staring to enjoy solid food
We redid some of our favorite posses from her first few weeks, and plan to do the same when she is a year old to show how she has grown.

Tuesday April 9, 2013

Aleana turned 6 months on April 2, I can’t believe she is already 6 months old she is growing up so fast.  On Easter she cut her first top tooth now that makes four teeth!  She loves to roll and rolls all over the living room, even underneath the coffee table. Now I have to be more carefully about what is on the floor.  It is so fun to see her roll around and explore new things.  She really likes books and helps me turn the pages and open and close the book. Yesterday she went to the doctors for her 6th month check-up and shots.  She now weighs 17 lbs 11.5 oz and is 26 ½ inches long.  She is in the 80th percentile for height and weight.  She is growing fast.  She did really well with her shoots, of course she was already crying from the liquid medicine they give her before the shots  and she cried after her shots but she calmed down pretty easy and was just fussy and out of it for the rest of the day.  She was pretty upset and had a hard time going to sleep but she was hungry and the medicine had worn off and we had just given her more.  I always give her medicine before her baby shots because it makes the world of difference. 
Last night I noticed a hole in the gums where her top right tooth will come in, so I think they will cut through today or tomorrow.  She is just popping out teeth like crazy. Thank goodness for teething tablets and baby Tylenol or my life would be a bit crazier.    
These last few weeks have been crazy but fun.  On the 30th Curt’s parents and Tiff and Julee came up to visit.  They brought up cute Easter presents for Aleana. Jody made her a cute little Easter dress.  And they also brought her a cute little barn with little stuffed Duck, Horse, Pig and Cow that make their sounds when you squeeze them.  Aleana has loved them and smiles when they make noise.  We had lunch on the back patio and enjoyed the afternoon together.    Later that afternoon we went down to Russ and Marianne’s house for Conner’s 3rd Birthday party.  Their little girl Sophie and Aleana will hopefully be good friends when they get older. They are only one week apart although Aleana is a lot bigger.    Then we went to my parents for an Easter dinner and then watched “Wreck-it Ralph” which Aleana loved.  It is bad she already loves the TV, but I am working on not having it on so much J. When we left my mom said that next time we see Allen and Kathy they may have a baby.  We figured that was not possible because she was still about a month out.
On Tuesday morning (April 4th) I get a call from my mom asking if I have heard from Allen, I said no and then she said pretend I did not call.  Kathy was in the hospital having her baby, her water broke at 3:30 that morning and she had Layla just before noon.  She weighed 5 lbs. and 10 oz. and was 19 inches long.  She stated out doing fine but as the day went on her breathing got worse and she ended up going to the NICU.  She could be in there for about 2 weeks.  They are treating her for pneumonia and she will be on the medication for 5 to 7 days.  She has started to get better since they started her on the medication, but Allen and Kathy still don’t get to hold her very often and when we went and saw her on Saturday night we could not even touch her.  She is adorable with olive skin, lots of black hair and Allen’s nose.  We love her and pray for her and Allen and Kathy often.  We are glad that having Kathy’s baby shower and having them be around Aleana and the family has helped their spirits and I hope things just go up from here.     
This weekend we get to go to Henderson for my Grandpas 80th Birthday and in 14 days we get to finalize the adoption and in 18 days we get to take Aleana to the Temple to be sealed to us.  This has been and will continue to be a great but crazy month. 



We went to Henderson Nevada for My Grandpa's 80th Birthday party.
It was fun to be there but poor little Aleana got an ear ache and was sick the whole time.
She is almost completely better:)




 The Family!
My Grandpa, Grandma, Aleana and her 2nd cousin Jackson 

Monday April 22, 2013

A lot has happened, Aleana now has 6 teeth, 2 half teeth on top and 3 and half teeth on bottom.  The top right and bottom right next to the middle are her new teeth. I think more will be coming soon because she is still in a lot of pain.  She all so has learned to sit up with little or no support, next step crawling (I don’t think I am ready for that).  Also she has gotten her first ear infectionL.
We were getting ready to leave for Henderson on Friday April 12th and Aleana had a nasty sounding cough and a runny nose.  I was able to clear her nose out and get rid of her cough so I was hoping we would be able to go because I really wanted to see my grandparents and for them to meet Aleana.  We left that afternoon and drove to Cedar City.  She gaged and threw up on the way to Cedar and when we were staying a Janalee and Danny’s places she was up most of the night coughing and probably had a fever.  We debated on going to my grandparents but since we were so close we decided to still go.  It was fun to spend the day with them and my aunt Suzanne and be there for the dinner and cake and ice cream. It was also nice for my grandparents to meet and spend time with Aleana.  I felt bad that she was fussy and cried a lot, threw up twice and probably had a fever while there.
We had planned to stay at my grandparents’ house with Aleana, but since she was sick my parents Brian, Debbie and us shared a two bed room suit and she kept everyone but my dad up half the night, but at least curt got more sleep then the previous night.   
 The car ride home was not too horrible because she slept most of the time and when she was awake Debbie rode with us to keep her happy.  When we got to my parents’ house we found out she did have a fever.  My Dad and Curt gave her a blessing and then she slept all the way home. 
On Tuesday I finally took her to the doctor and found out she had an ear infection. We played sick the rest of the week and by Thursday I was starting to get sick with a bit of a fever and cold and curt had a cold.  We are all started to feel better but Aleana hates to take her medicine L.
I can’t believe that tomorrow we get to go to court and finalize and Saturday we get to take her to the temple. This is going to be a big week!! Time has gone by so fast!
Oh Layla is home, but still on oxygen.  I can’t wait to see her again this weekend.